This article reveals what might be behind some seemingly dumb arguments with your partner. If you’re been in a relationship long enough to get past the honeymoon phase you will find yourself fighting, sometime once in a great while and sometimes often, over what you know, if you were being honest with yourself, is insignificant and petty. Yet, at the time you’re both angry and standing your ground.That there’s something deeper, more meaningful under the dumb fight is reassuring (that you’re not a nit picker) and the underneath subject does have meaning. You will both benefit by looking at what you’re really fighting about. Sometimes a person is embarrassed to say what’s really going on or has been stuffing some other significant issue, unwilling to talk about it and then the dumb fight breaks out. Read some examples here of the dumb fight and what’s underneath the dumb fight.